The player has the ability to control one family at a time and easily switch from one family to another. All the Sims of the city evolve together, but if you want you can stop the aging or the story progression. In this way Sims that you don't control won't get married or evolve.
But players can pause age progression on a Sim/family which stays on even when you are not playing the family.[13]
The player can choose the length of a Sims life, from 25 Sim days to 1000 Sim days
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Yes I realize a Wiki entry isn't official news, but it cited with this
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